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Navigating Life's Shifts: Gratitude, Growth, and Holiday Traditions

As another week rolls by, one marked by the absence of my usual running regimen, I've found solace in the steady companionship of my dog, Goat, on our daily walks. These walks, while tranquil, have made the lack of running more noticeable. Running, for me, isn't just a physical exercise; it's a mental and emotional release, a ritual that brings equilibrium to my life despite its demanding nature.

The concept of gratitude came into play vividly last night during a bedtime conversation with Tsunami. When he turned the tables and asked me what I was grateful for, my answer, 'doorhandles,' might have seemed trivial at first glance. Yet, it sparked a deeper contemplation about the often-overlooked conveniences that streamline our daily lives, making our routines smoother and more efficient.

Tsunami's expression of gratitude for our forthcoming Christmas together opened a window into his perspective and led me to reflect on the evolving nature of our holiday traditions. This season, we've held onto some of our cherished rituals, like the daily stocking treasures, advent calendars, and the live Christmas tree, anchoring us in familiarity. Yet, we've also ventured into new territory with activities like gingerbread house building, a request from Tsunami that may well become a new tradition.

A few nights ago, Tsunami confided his feelings about growing up and moving away from childhood interests. It was a bittersweet realization of the passage of time and the inevitable changes it brings. By shifting our focus to the exciting new hobbies and passions he's developing, we turned a moment of sadness into one of anticipation for the future.

This holiday season mirrors these conversations of growth and change. It's different, undoubtedly, and while it's human to miss the familiar comfort of past celebrations, there's also a newfound strength and understanding emerging. The realization that I'm capable of navigating these changes, of creating new joyous moments while cherishing the old, has been a powerful one.

This journey of adapting to change, both as an individual and as a parent, reminds me that life is a series of evolving chapters. Each one brings its own challenges and joys, and learning to embrace them is part of our growth. As we approach the holidays, I'm allowing myself to feel a blend of nostalgia for the past and excitement for the new traditions and experiences that lie ahead.

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