Fifteen Years of Fatherhood: Reflections and Revelations

As Jupiter turns 15, I find myself in a reflective state, marveling at the journey of fatherhood and the incredible changes it has brought – both in my son and in myself.

Jupiter’s Growth: Strength from Challenges

Jupiter's entry into the world wasn't without its challenges. There were medical complications that initially gave us a scare, but he emerged as one of the strongest individuals I know. His resilience is a constant source of pride and inspiration. Over the years, he has developed a diverse array of interests, keeping not just himself but our entire family actively engaged and always on our toes.

Family Dynamics: Embracing Change

The shape of our family today is vastly different from what I had envisioned 15 years ago. But this evolution is not just okay; it's a testament to our adaptability and commitment to providing the best for Jupiter and his brother, Tsunami. Families, I've learned, are not static entities but living, breathing units that grow and adapt to life's ever-changing scenarios.

Personal Transformation: Inspired by Fatherhood

Fatherhood has catalyzed profound changes in me as well. When Jupiter was born, I couldn't have predicted the ways in which my life would transform. His arrival spurred a newfound focus on my health, prompting me to start running – a practice that has since become a cornerstone of my well-being.

Equally transformative was my decision
to stay home with Jupiter and Tsunami during their early years. This period not only deepened our bond but also unexpectedly paved the way for my current career. It's fascinating how sometimes, the most profound changes in our lives stem from decisions made with the heart.

Looking Ahead: Anticipating the Future

Reflecting on these 15 years, I'm struck by the unpredictable nature of life's journey. It's been a wild, often unexpected ride – filled with challenges, learning, and immense joy. As I look toward the next 15 years, I'm filled with anticipation and excitement. The path ahead for Jupiter, Tsunami, and myself is unwritten, and that's the beauty of it. There's so much more to learn, experience, and cherish.

As a father, watching your child grow is a journey of continuous discovery. Here's to the next chapter, with all its potential and promise.

Tsunami Warning for Lincoln Nebraska

Tsunami Dawkins Augustine was born at 13:05 on September 26, 2011 at Bryan Hospital in Lincoln, NE. He weighed 8 lbs 5 ounces and measured 20 inches. Mother and baby are doing great!

Kid on a Leash

Has anyone seen these kid leash products around? Sometimes I see them at the zoo, farmers market, or other crowded areas. If a company can make a product that will make a parent feel a little bit safer, there will always be people out there to buy it. When I see one, it reminds me of that scene in Rise of the Planet of the Apes when a leashed Caesar sees a dog on a leash and turns to Will and signs, "Am I a pet?" The idea of the product is that it will keep the child safe and nearby. It is designed to subside the fear that a child will run off or get abducted. I think that if someone is out to abduct a child during the few seconds when a parent is looking away, a leash is a very small deterrent, and likely, not effective. All the abductor would need is a nice pair of scissors or simply their fingers. The latch cannot be that hard to work. If anything, having a leash might give a parent a false sense of security causing them to pay less attention to the child. In that case it

Uninvited Touching

Imagine a scenario where you are sitting in a public place where there are a lot of strangers around, such as a restaurant. You are minding your own business when one of these complete strangers comes out of seemingly nowhere and starts telling you about how cute you are, touching you, pinching your cheeks, and running their fingers through your hair. Or maybe they even start rubbing your belly. Perhaps after that, they start making assumptions about which sexual organs you have. Does this not seem like off putting and even rude behavior? Well, some people seem to think that doing these things to infant children and pregnant mothers is perfectly socially acceptable. I can understand friends and family wanting to touch a baby and most of them have the common courtesy to ask first and get some sort of non-verbal cue from the child, such as a smile or a warm look, that it is okay. But a complete stranger in a random restaurant? I was caught off guard when a fellow restaurant patron did

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